4 days · small group · multiple immersions this year

The Return

a space for men to come home to the softer parts of themselves.

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I'm Already a Yes

before you apply

watch this first

note: upcoming immersions are closer to 5–10 people.

why now

the vision is clear.

men need this work right now.
and it tracks.

i know guys who will invest 10 grand in drills, lawnmowers, and fishing trips, but have never invested into their own growth.

what if i told you that sitting with yourself and witnessing the parts you've been ignoring for decades would immediately shift every relationship, conversation, and interaction in your life?

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you'll be able to

show up different

this work doesn't care what's on your business card. ceos, contractors, dads, single guys, veterans, artists — everyone carries something. here's what shifts:

show up authentically in partnerships — without hiding behind old roles or old wounds
speak your truth at work, in your friendships, and in your marriage
remove the stagnancy that's been causing you emotional and physical pain
be present with your kids instead of checked out, distracted, or exhausted
regulate your nervous system instead of reacting from stress and survival mode
release the anger you've been carrying and never had a safe place to put down
reconnect with your body after years of ignoring what it's been trying to tell you
rebuild trust with the people who've watched you disappear into work, screens, or old habits
lead from strength instead of pressure, proving, or performance
remember who you were before the world told you who to be

when was the last time you stopped?

3x the amount of men commit suicide than women because there's few spaces that feel safe enough for us to share what's hurting inside. this is that space.

i've done this work for 14 years with medicine keepers and chiefs and shamans all over the world. i'm gonna hold that space for you so we can come together as brothers.

women are 60–70% of the participants at group retreats and immersions because they know how to treat themselves.

meanwhile, men will quietly suffer and then silently slip away because we don't think anyone sees us.

i'm here to hold the space to show you that you are seen, valued, and here for something much bigger than you've been told.

"you are seen, valued, and here for something much bigger."

this is for you if

something's calling you home

your life no longer fits your soul's purpose

you're wondering what's next

you're burnt out and running on empty

you're surrounded by people but feel alone

you've done the therapy, courses, retreats, and something still feels missing

you're craving real connection, nature, and conversation

you just need to stop, breathe, and remember

what it is

a place to connect with brothers and a space that's safe to share your whole self. no expectations. nowhere to be other than in the moment.

waterfall hikes, songs around the fire that hold you and remind you you're not alone. a place to share your story and be fully seen with your brothers.

I'm Ready To Show Up

what's included

4 days, 10 men, one fire

note: upcoming immersions are closer to 5–10 people.

4 days, 10 men — an intimate, all-male container
log cabin on the river — off-grid, close to the earth
waterfall hikes & primal rhythm — bare feet on the earth, the land as the teacher
outdoor sauna — rocks, heat, and release
3 daily ancestral meals — food that fuels, shared together in prayer
logs, fire & music every night — Penn plays every night around the fire. this is the ceremony.

upcoming immersions

more places to land

August 7–11

Rhododendron, Oregon

an off-grid log cabin tucked in the forest near Mt. Hood — a river-side fire pit, an outdoor sauna, and a wood-fired living room to land in after the day.

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August 28 – September 1

Vancouver Island

the next immersion — same fire, same depth, new land. details land soon.

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Dates Coming Soon

Hawaii

another immersion in the works — island land, island rhythm. want in? apply and i'll reach out when it's locked in.

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join us. Oregon, Vancouver Island, or Hawaii.

4 days. small group. more immersions landing this year.

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